Mediation gives both parties a seat at the table rather than leaving decisions to a judge. It is less adversarial, more affordable than litigation, and significantly easier on children. Agreements reached through mediation tend to be more balanced and more likely to hold up over time because both parties had a hand in shaping them.

Most mediations are completed over several sessions across three to six months, though more complex cases may take longer. Preparation and willingness to compromise are the two biggest factors in keeping things moving efficiently.

California requires a six-month waiting period from the date of filing before a marriage can be legally dissolved. Most of the substantive work can be resolved well before that window closes, and once the Judgment is submitted, finalization typically follows within six to eight weeks.

Every client receives a clear checklist tailored to their specific situation covering financial documents, asset and debt information, and anything related to children if applicable.

Either party is welcome to seek advice from an attorney or other advisor at any point, but there is no requirement to do so.

In most cases, no. Mediation is designed to reach a full resolution outside of court, saving both parties the time, cost, and stress of formal proceedings.

If mediation does not result in a full agreement, both parties retain the right to pursue litigation. Anything discussed during the process remains confidential, and choosing mediation never waives any legal rights.

In a collaborative divorce, each party retains their own attorney and if negotiations break down, both must withdraw and the parties start over. Mediation uses a single neutral mediator to guide both parties toward agreement, typically at a lower cost and with fewer complications.

You are never locked in. Refund eligibility depends on the stage of progress at the time of withdrawal and is outlined in full in the service agreement.

California Divorce Mediation Services guides couples who are ready to resolve their divorce without the cost and conflict of litigation with fair, efficient resolutions.